Cicero said gratitude “is not only the greatest one but also the mother of all the other remaining virtues”

It is so very true. Gratitude is magical. It teaches you the essence of life, joy of small things and increases the effectiveness of life. Often in our daily life, all we do is complaining about all we don’t have, but take for granted all we have. Ferris Bueller said, “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” Gratitude teaches to be appreciative in our life and to realise nothing is ‘ too small’ to overlook. It is however much more than a mere thank you feeling, it is a deeper sense of appreciation, with humility, for everything you have and enjoy in your daily life, right from the food you eat, clothes you wear, the shelter, and the close ones you rely upon.

Last one and half year were challenging for me. The pages of my life were not turning out the way it should be. Every day was tough. But I lead me to float throughout the bad times, is my sense of gratitude which I took as an anchor to sail through. I would have been broken badly until I realised that small things matters in life, nothing is for granted. I choose to look for happiness in every day’s activities for e.g., safe return of my family at the end of the day, the healthy smile of my child, the protective love of my parents around me and so on. And believe me, my list is unending,( n surely will be yours), then why cry for something which is beyond our control.

Psychologists further categorize three types of gratitude: gratitude as an “affective trait” (one’s overall tendency to have a grateful disposition), a mood (daily fluctuations in overall gratitude), and an emotion (a more temporary feeling of gratitude that one may feel after receiving a gift or a favour from someone). Most of the studies in this paper focus on a trait (or “dispositional” gratitude) and/or gratitude as an emotion. ( Allen, 2018)

What is Gratitude?

Practicing gratitude does not imply the absence of problems in life, but it helps you to change your focus to existing good things in your life. By being gratitude you become more optimistic and happier. It not only develops your inner strength to overcome challenges but also grooms your personality.

A growing number of research studies suggest that gratitude make people physically healthier and adopt healthier lifestyles. A study of people with heart failure found that people with higher dispositional gratitude reported better sleep, less fatigue, and lower levels of cellular inflammation (Mills et al., 2015) and a study of patients who had had a heart attack or chest pain found that patients who had higher levels of optimism and gratitude two weeks after their cardiac event also reported greater improvements in emotional well-being six months later (Millstein et al., 2016) .

How to practice gratitude in daily life:

Say small prayers

Prayers are a powerful way of expressing gratitude. First of all, be grateful for your life. Begin and end your day with small prayers. Take the habit of saying silent prayers to God for everything in your life, no matter big or small. Acknowledge all things you feel blessed to have it in your life.

Keep a gratitude journal

Always make a habit of noting down things you feel good about in the whole day. Take your time to realise the importance of pleasant happenings that added charm to your life. Even if the day didn’t turn out as per your expectation, try to pick up the hidden aspects, to make yourself grateful for a safe day in the end.

Count your blessings

Yes, count your daily blessings. The safe home, your favourite meal, a cosy bed are all part of blessings. The capacity and power within you to do what you want is also a blessing. Make a list of them in your journal. It will make you realise how beautiful your life is. Compare your life with those who are needy, and feel deeply how blessed you are.

Express yourself

Express your love and affection to your family. Value your relationships. Be thankful to be surrounded by protective and loving people, who love and care for you. Be grateful to realise that there are people for you to look behind and rely on, and who love you unconditionally.

And, remember ‘It is not the happy people who are grateful, it is the grateful people who are happy’.

This is my 7th post for the alphabet ‘ G’, for the ongoing #blogchatterA2Z, Challenge, 2019.


Allen S. ( 2018), The Science of Gratitude, A white paper prepared for the John Templeton Foundation by the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.

Mills, P. J., Redwine, L. S., Wilson, K., Pung, M. A., Chinh, K., Greenberg, B. H., … Chopra, D. (2015). The role of gratitude in spiritual well-being in asymptomatic heart failure patients. Spirituality in Clinical Practice, 2(1), 5–17.

Millstein, R. A., Celano, C. M., Beale, E. E., Beach, S. R., Suarez, L., Belcher, A. M., … Huffman, J. C. (2016). The effects of optimism and gratitude on adherence, functioning and mental health following an acute coronary syndrome. General Hospital Psychiatry, 43, 17–22.


Siddhi · April 8, 2019 at 1:32 am

I read about the gratitude journal and tho I can’t keep up I do make it a point to.pen a few words every now and then

    Darshana · April 8, 2019 at 9:04 am

    Good to know that, Siddhi.
    Weekly writing of journal is also a good option. Keep that up.
    thank you for reading.

saba ladha · April 8, 2019 at 5:50 am

This is surely something I’ll be keeping in my mind henceforth.

    Darshana · April 8, 2019 at 9:03 am

    Thank you so much, Saba.
    Give a try and surely it will bring positive changes to your life.

Samira Gupta · April 8, 2019 at 6:30 am

Being into Reiki, loved this article all the more. Yes, i do maintain a Gratitude Journal, however not very regular in writing in it. It’s really amazing to see the list when we count our Blessings. You start writing and the list goes on and on.

    Darshana · April 8, 2019 at 9:02 am

    loved to know that Samira. Yes, we are blessed souls, provided we think that way.

    Thank you for stopping by my post.

Abhiit · April 8, 2019 at 8:09 am

Such a wonderful post. I could relate to so many things. From childhood I learnt that it is important to be grateful to people around you, specially those help you at the time of difficulty. Yes, bad times do come to good people But one should not feel bitter and try to face bad times with a. smiling face. As I grew older, it appeared that what I learnt was wrong. Back stabbing and moving forward by pulling other down is a norm. Cheating is a way of life. Now reading your post, my original beliefs are being reinforced. Thank you.

    Darshana · April 8, 2019 at 9:00 am

    Thank you so much.
    Yes, there is lot of negativity around, which is beyond our control. Therefore, we should priortise only on good things. Going this keeps our mental strenght intact.

Priyanka Nair · April 8, 2019 at 11:16 am

Gratitude changes everything and I try to practise expressing gratitude as much as I can. Nice post

    Darshana · April 8, 2019 at 6:47 pm

    Thank you so much, Priyanka..
    Yes, indeed it helps.

Vartika Gakhar · April 8, 2019 at 4:36 pm

Around a year back, I had written a post on counting blessings. We should be grateful for the Little things in life which for many are the big things. lovely post.

    Darshana · April 8, 2019 at 6:49 pm

    Thank you so much for reading ,Vartika.

Vartika Gakhar · April 8, 2019 at 4:37 pm

Around a year back, I had written a post on counting blessings. We should be grateful for the Little things in life. lovely post.

vidhya thakkar · April 8, 2019 at 8:20 pm

A wonderful post! can relate to every point

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